http://ask.serolynne.com Advice from Serolynne on a variety of relationship topics Tue, 15 Sep 2009 20:42:32 +0000 http://backend.userland.com/rss092 en I'm finding myself generally uninterested in answering questions and giving advice to strangers on the same old relationship problems via this forum. Polyamory just isn't playing that much of a role in my personal life which further aids to my disinterest in a stranger's poly problems. So, if you have question ... http://ask.serolynne.com/?p=44 Dear Serolynne: About six months ago my best friend and his wife let me know that she wanted to sleep with me, they didn't set any ground rules before hand or make any requests about behavior it was mostly just a matter of "lets see where this leads". Physically we've had ... http://ask.serolynne.com/?p=42 Hi Serolynne, I would like your advice about a new poly relationship I am in.  I am in a V. On Saturday night, while I was at a dinner party with my guy, his other partner called him from out of town visiting her mother.   She knew we were at my friends' ... http://ask.serolynne.com/?p=39 Dear Serolynne I am a 39 yr old professional straight guy. I have two kids and an ex-wife. We ended up in a divorce a year and a half ago due to a variety of reasons including me outgrowing her and different social viewpoints.  We were able to get back on ... http://ask.serolynne.com/?p=37 Dear Serolynne: I'm curious about your thoughts regarding the privacy issues involved in sharing the names of previous partners. I can imagine in certain circumstances (especially if people are in the closet at work or something) that past or even current partners might prefer that you didn't share their names with ... http://ask.serolynne.com/?p=34 Dear Serolynne: My partner and I have been theoretically polyamorous for several years now, and while neither of us has had much sexual exploration outside of our own relationship - we have both been dating over the years.  I've now been involved with another woman for several months whom my partner ... http://ask.serolynne.com/?p=33 Dear Serolynne: My husband and I recently got married although we've been together for almost 10 yrs. A little bit before we got married I started falling for a close female mutual friend of ours. Since we've been married my husband has now fallen for her and things have gotten heavy ... http://ask.serolynne.com/?p=32 Dear Serolynne, I am in a long distance relationship and we have been dating for a while but we have yet to have sex. He recently told me that a few months prior to "us" he was infected with HSV. I am sexually attracted to him but I fear the risk ... http://ask.serolynne.com/?p=31 Dear Serolynne: I just found your website and have a question about how to deal with anger regarding getting an STD from my lover’s other girlfriend. I don’t mind if he goes out with her, but the thought of them engaging in sex which is how the herpes was transmitted makes my ... http://ask.serolynne.com/?p=30 Dear Serolynne: In the last 2 months I've met and hit it off with a really incredible guy who knows both me and my partner already, and understands and sees himself fitting into both our lives and is comfortable with that. Everyone is happy and excited about the situation. What I'm ... http://ask.serolynne.com/?p=29